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Forget someone we love is not easy. Sometimes strong hearts to step away, sometimes we want to continue to live in memories.
Love. It's not easy to forget the people we love. But life should continue.
Yes, talk is easy. But not impossible right?
I also like you. I never experienced love lost on the way. For some reason, had to split. More painful when love is not of blessing.
It's not easy to make a decision because both my very loved ones. Life is very painful I feel. We would like to forget, there are only memories beckon at the soul.
Heard the song, I remembered him. Look the eateries, remembered the him. Heck, very painful when forced to forget about the people we love.
But, I thought tonight I have to this?
I pray to them so that the given indicators. We miss him, I complain at him. it's not easy to recover the heart.
One day, I bermuhasabah myself. Put myself in others.
At first, I place myself at the second self my parents. They just want the best. It's already become the norm, parents looking for the best make his children.
Even though I was hurt by the decision of my parents, I received with pleased God because God is pleased with second at pleased parents. Therefore, I do not want my relationship not of blessing by my parents.
Then, I place myself at him. I understand he doesn't want me cornered to make decisions. He knows it's not easy for me to make a choice because both my very loved ones. So, she chose to go so I was not disobedient to my parents.
Then, I think, on behalf of myself. Maybe I love food with the blessings of God, given to it for more than I love love me to God.
Before I continue food with love, God withdraw favours it. Maybe now is not the right time for me to make love. God willing, if true he love match me, one day we will be dipertemukan at the appropriate time. I am sure God will give the best to me.
Thus, the bangkitlah of friends. Loss of human love not mean we break the hope to live. Pandanglah it from the point of positive. We will definitely be able to meet this pain very well.
Some way I do time to forget about that person
1. Apply the strength of God
Tips forgetting the people we love is to apply the strength of God in the life to come. Sign up for Allah show wisdom behind the separation.
"Can so you hate something while it's good for you and may be you like something, even though it's bad for you. Allah is all-knowing and yet you do not know. "
[2: 216]
2. Perbanyakkan prayers and recite the Quran
".. ... just with the remembrance of Allah to be sober." [Surah Ar-Rad: Paragraph 8]
The heart that hurt need medication. Ask God cure because God the owners every human heart. Ingatilah God because with the remembrance of Allah, our hearts will be quiet.
3. Accept the fact
The most important thing is that we have to accept reality. Accept the fact that separation has occurred and each already have their own orientation.
Always remind yourself that he is not the best for us and rest assured that we will find a better human. Believe in love match conditions. If he or she is created for us, he certainly back right?
Redhalah with ketentuanNYA.
4. remove all things about him
This is indeed painful to do but this is the best way to forget someone we love.
Top soiled all things about him. dispose of its phone number, block Facebook and whatever medium that allows you to connect to it.
If you love to make gift pemberiannya, simpanlah in a box and sorokkannya in a place far from your thoughts.
Turn yourself so as not to contact him.
5. Sibukkan yourself
Sibukkan yourself with work and friends. Luangkanlah time with the things you love to do. Do not leave yourself alone because you will feel quiet then remembering memories-memories ago.
6. Avoid all things about him
Try hindarkan all things that remind us the him. For example, do not go to venues that always we go with si him. Don't listen to songs associated with si him. If overheard, cepat-cepatlah close tu radio.
7. tell me the problem to people you trust
Recount to them these your problems to people you trust. Seek advice from him and seek the support of your friends to help you out of this problem.
Last of all, help us to get out of this crisis. Don't let us suffer because of past memories. Prove to them we are able to live better without it. Accept reality and believe me the wound will recover in time.
"God has already written the names of your spouses for you. What you need to work on is your relationship with God. HE will send her/him to you when you're ready. It is only a matter of time ".
Conclusion
Life is a journey that should we walk through with no-nonsense.
Then, there's the point we linger in grief. The way that years will only makes us blind will be a lot of happiness served God in us.
Maybe God wanted to teach the value of gratitude, and afflicted by distress and sadness. Might God want to educate our hearts with patience, and He gave the test. Might God want to train a sense of low self-esteem then given failure.
Might God want to test the value of our love to him, and He decided we love others.
Not given something with futile.
Not made anything at all without cause and ibrah, which certainly makes us feel amazed and thankful in one day: ')
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